Coherence is mostly not useful - but destructive - at least for humans

Summary : Why COHERENCE is mostly not a sign of health. What has Kali Durga, YIN, sleeplessness and the CoRe to do with that. What did Shakespeare wanted to indicated when we said “It is madness but it has method” and what we can learn from this for an ideal state of health.

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It has been shown that the activity of the conscious mind as well as words which require left brain thinking creates centripetal forces within the cells of the body. In other words, the intellectual learning process is one of control and rigidity which eventually results in negative effects within the cellular structure of the body. This can also be shown to be the case with patterns of shock or trauma where the conscious mind is used to control (and manipulate) emotions to stop them from being experienced.

This is not only the starting points for all disease, but also acts as a radiation device of negative information as well as a transmitter for the information sequences of the aging process.

Most people think that resonance is necessary, like is the case in music where it produces agreeable sounds of chords and octave differences. The sound waves add constructively.

In a suspension bridge however, resonance of a constant (even low speed) winds, produce vibrations in the roadbed and suspension cables which can be destructive when superimposed. For example: Tacoma Bridge http://noolmusic.com/youtube/tacoma_bridge_collapse.php

This last example shows clearly that even from a physical point of view, resonance isn’t always that good. However on the conscious and spiritual level it is even worse. Resonance is clearly a process of information transfer. If this happens on the left brain minded level (conscious or not), this leads to a total loss of individuality and own development. It is an attack towards the individual freedom, and leading to mass hysteria, sects and other controlling organisations such as religion and the army. They break down all individual’s strength just as the Tahoma Bridge, loosing all identity. (Whoops, again a few friends less!)

Willy De Maeyer

..... and informational Coherence effect like in the football stadium

Most books, theories and opinions remain vague about the nature of coherence. The reason probably lies in its uselessness of using it in the evaluation of ethical principles and judgments, and its restricted application to pure physical, non spiritual “observations” and applications. Unfortunately, many theorists take coherence as the central key to traditional justification judgments of right or wrong.

“DLE” can be described as a state in which a person achieves anything else than a traditional mutually coherent set of principles, and useless background beliefs. How to get to DLE is easy and very rewarding. Traditional coherent beliefs are just a set of self sustaining procedures to keep people’s mind far away from proper individual development and broadening.

Coherence should be defined as a multiple constraint de-satisfaction principle. Contrary to what many think, spiritual behaviour and healthy decision making is NOT dependant on coherence. It is necessary to define the elements, the positive constraints, and the negative constraints that operate in most thinking, but therefore you don’t need coherence.

Old saws such as explanation, deduction, facilitation and association are traditionally regarded as coherent elements, statement that is based on nothing, and are considered to be the right things to do. Contrary, inconsistency, incompatibility and so called “negative” association are pillars of evolution, education and constructive questioning.

Only correct and spiritual concepts, propositions, goals and actions can be made and focussed on, if based on those pillars. It is not because elements are so-called “incoherent” that there is a negative constraint between them and therefore should be rejected. It is just stupid to divide set of elements into accepted and rejected sets in a way that satisfies traditional thinking.

Healthy DLE is impossible in a well organized coherent environment…A shocking example: the typical American Hamburger is a masterpiece of coherent composition. Why? Because the meat is soft, the roll is even softer, the cheese is a soft binder, making sure that the food “sticks” together while spending a short time in the mouth, and finally the sauces provide excellent lubrication while swallowing, nobody needs to do the slightest effort while “processing” his lunch…disgusting isn’t it, although all elements are coherent…and responsible for the increasing number of overweight (read “unhealthy”) adults and children.

Willy De Maeyer

At the AIM training one of the new concepts of informational medicine that was introduced and its practical application demonstrated  was

COHERENCE

All our educational system is aimed at creating a coherent citizen who fits into a box that he fills in a productive way. Autism is an extreme form of this tendency, but it will grow as long as we do not realize that our drive for Coherence is the cause for it…. and Autism is only one of the many forms that this OVER-COHERENCE creates – others are :

AUTISM

INFERIORITY COMPLEX

COMPULSION

INSECURITY

DEPRESSION

CO-DEPENDENCE

whereas forms of OVER-COMPENSATION are

ADHD

MANIA / ROAD-RAGE

ALZHEIMER

AGGRESSION / ANARCHY

LONELINESS / INDEPENDENCE-ADDICTION

because we are so Coherent these things happen

Who was ever diagnosed with a Coherence-Spectrum-Disorder CSP….. most autistic parents certainly belong to this category…. I tried to sign up for several Autism chat groups but was always denied because I could not give enough proof of me properly belonging to this interest group…. this is a common questionair that you  have to fill-in when you want to join an AUTIMS chat-group :

1. What is your first and last name?
2. Are you a parent of a child with autism? (You must be a parent of anautistic child in order to join.)
3. Age of child?
4. Age of diagnosis?
5. What kind of program do you have?
6. What issues are of importance to you?
7. Do you work for a school district or have any work relationship to anydevelopmental disability agency?
8.  Do you work for or have any financial interest in a company or agency that provides products or services to families with autism?  If so, what is the name of the business and what is your role in it?  Does the business/agency charge a fee for services?
9. How did you hear about this list?
10. What school district are you in?
11. What city do you live in?

12. Was anyone of your grandparents affected by Autism

13. Do have any possible interest in helping autistic children or their parents, if yes, explain on the page attached

14. Do you have any proof or your good standing and right intend ?

15. Are you connected to any religious organization or cult ?

16. Are you really sure that you want to join this chat group ?

AND if you omit to answer any one you are not accepted……

What Autistic children as well as most of their parents would need is some DLE and RESET, to get our of their need for regulating, predicting, protecting and saving themselves and their children.

Resonance on the informational level occurs when there is a commonality between 2 informational Fields of Force.

As you know DLE is the activity to stay in a dynamic labile equilibrium state between the polarities or in other words to

remain in DLE in an informational Field. Just to refresh a few examples of such polarities:

I hate my work – I have to work to make my living

I am smoking – I believe it will not harm me if I choose so

I like to drive fast – I hate  to have another ticket

I love my wife – Sometimes I would like to have a sensitive experience with another woman

I love my children – I would like to go on a four wheel tour trough the dessert without them

I would like to attend the AIM training – I need to save money for my next dental treatment.

so on and on it goes ….. can you imagine the number of force-fields we live in ?

and of course there have been countless attempts to get out of one or best all of them for example :

1. become a monk

2. dont have children

3. cheat your spouse in a very clever way

4. get a radar detector

5. dogmas like “LIVE IS WONDERFUL” or “NOTHING BAD EVER HAPPENS” or “EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON”

5. delusions like “CHEATING HURTS NOBODY as long as it is kept a secret” or “I CAN FOLLOW THE AIM TRAINING AS WELL ONLINE”

6. opinions like “I KNOW IT ALL”

6. and so on and on

The teaching that I offer on this forum is as simple as the following :

Polarities are absolutely necessary for health, and if we try to avoid them with one sided choices of living or thinking we will have to get sick to get out of these dead end streets again. If we try to avoid them with insurances, imitation of others or new-age-all-is good-delusion. We should try to find which pole these attitudes want not hide (informational buffer)…. and of course CoRe is the tool for that. The way back to health is to integrate the covered pole back into ones life.

Then came this  message from a good friend that made me aware of an important point :

Dear Kiran

I will really conside your suggestion about a drink in Brazil

I just took part of the pendulum text. I have realized that my intuitive way of handeling my hostile husband who wants to have money from ME!! (the opposit is obvious to anyone who would know but I have been codependent – and protected the family image -to a man with dependency on other people´s money – expecially mine. Sorry, it i just en good example)

I make a list of all I have to thank him for, the  good parts. and I send one thank every day..Believe this will stop the pendulum!! Love M.

This message reminded me that we have to recognize an important difference between Resonance effects that are based on a healthy DLE, which create “openness to change” and destructive DLE  that actually dominates most peoples lives in the form of destructive relationships to a spouse, neighbour, parents, money, cultural conventions, spirituality, traffic or  mortgages.

Of course some girls, money-matters, drugs or cults can have quite a labilizing effect on our life …. particularly if we feed this roller-coaster (pendulum) with our energy, information, time and emotions…. and unfortunately for most people their whole life consists of various Pendulum that they feel? they have to feed.

It takes time to learn  to recognize the difference between Resonance (for example when falling in love) and the unhealthy attempt to maintain a COHERENCE that that is kept alive by avoiding/fearing change . Fortunately we have a tool, the CoRe System,  that is not bound by traditions of whatever kind it shows you and your client “Wo der Hase im Pfeffer liegt” (“Where the rabbit thinks? he loves pepper”) and best of all can loosen the spell that a Pendulum holds over those that feed it.

COHERENCE is an informational Concept that I consider as very important. It says that most of the life of people is about feeding COHERENCE with their time, dedication, energy in the form of fears and desires. You feed a COHERENCE both with your positive thoughts, actions, affirmation just as much as with all your negativity about it, and most frequently with explaining and blaming. Therefor a COHERENCE is a mechanism that takes your energy and information whereas Resonance is an effect that provides you with both.

Again there are countless different varieties of COHERENCE but a very common one :

I will love you and give you all you want – if you love and feed and admire me.

In the case of M as in many other relationships this has turned into dislike or even hate but at the same time she got the idea (probably from new-age thinkers) that the way out is to continue to send positive vibes and affirmation.And when you think about this example, if you are honest to yourself you can see that this is a very common way of keeping alive many unhealthy relationships,not only to the spouse but also to many other areas :

We want to give up smoking, we are negative about it, we hate it  - We very often reaffirm that it is our choice and it is our pleasure and that this gives our life and we predominantly smoke in the pleasurable times of our life like break.

We hate our job, we are finding things every day that annoy us, we complain to everyone around us – We Know? that this is “at the present moment” the best choice we are having, we know? that it has some purpose that we are there for now, we like the person in the next cubicle and are so positive about the social benefits.

We are completely exhausted by all the family politics, we have to recover a week from every family-come-together – We really think? that without a family you are nobody, we believe? that it is our moral duty to take care of our relatives, particularly our parents, we are sure? in the end it is about changing a few details and the whole experience will turn positive.

…. you see the pattern ,,,,, I could make up examples for gambling, going to church, shopping, children, neighbors, money, sex and it would all follow the same pattern

“Informational COHERENCE are used to keep the status quo alive”

We are either stuck to one or the other pole of a polarity which is lacking DLE OR in the case of COHERENCE one is stuck to a constant up and down,  happy and unhappy, positive and negative about a situation and we go from one extrem to the other (being stuck to a particular DLE).

So someone (of course most likely a woman) would say… “Hey Kiran, here you have the DLE that you are always promoting”

Certainly this is not the essence …. the essence of the concept of DLE is “Not to get stuck in anything for too long” even your favorable DLE experience….. clear ?

I know it is the most difficult lesson we can learn, the ultimate lesson of many incarnations, that at the end we are free and can move all the realms without getting stuck…. because immeasurable wonders await those who :

“Kisses joy or sorrow as it flies”  as they “will live in eternities sunrise”

and certainly the KISS OF DEATH is the ultimate test weather we have learned our lesson “TO BE OPEN TO CHANGE”

COHERENCE here "Foucault Pendulum" is the ultimate symbol of inertia .... it does not even change its path if the earth below moves under it